Do you ever wonder how other people see you?
Does is change your self-worth?
I think most of us do. In fact, I’ve read that nearly 99% of all human beings wonder about that. It’s completely normal.
And pretty scary.
Because you don’t really know what others think about you – so you often make assumptions. Maybe they didn’t understand a joke you made and now you worry if they think you’re weird. Or maybe you accidentally said something stupid, and now your fear everyone at the party might think you’re dumb, despite all the other clever stuff that came out of your mouth earlier that evening…
It is very normal to feel insecure about this. But things are usually very different from what you think.
Maybe those people found you very funny, or brilliant, or attractive.
If only you knew…or if you only had the confidence to believe in yourself and not react harshly or worse yet, dim your magnificent light because of ‘what if’s.’
The truth is – it’s really none of your business what others think about you. You cannot control their thoughts or know where or how their perceptions come about anyway. And you cannot allow it to hinder your self-worth.
Now, believe me – I have experience with this kind of insecurity too! And even though I’ve let go of most of those concerns, it does creep up on me from time to time.
Our feeling of worthiness or self-worth must come from within. If we depend on the thoughts and feelings of others to control us – then we are continually putting our life’s creation in their hands!
Think of it like this:
Instead of trying so hard to be the object of their love, their admiration, their definition of who you are….
Why not BE the source of love, adoring yourself, defining who you are first.
And then showing up as that person….
With Self Acceptance.
With Inner peace.
With Self Worth.
Without Giving Up.
You can begin by crashing through your own self doubts and fears by giving yourself credit for all the amazing things you have done. Recognizing your unique gifts. Loving the body that loves you everyday and breathes life through without even asking for it.
The Universe has a way of bringing you the love, the life, the experiences the abundance and joy that you crave when you decide to own your worthiness.
It cannot not come to you when you believe in you.
When you are in love with you – you attract more love into your life.
When you believe you have the ability to do anything – you attract opportunities to help you learn.
When you allow yourself to have fun today – you attract more and more joy.
When you stop judging yourself so harshly – so do others.
When you do your best – others see it – and help you.
When you face your fears are inner demons – they diminish. They turn into rewards, accomplishments and celebrations!
Facing fears is often about getting out of your comfort zone. Stop worrying about what they think. Doing something that is less reactive and more proactive.
So many times in my past I didn’t do or say or act or dress or go someplace because I was afraid I wasn’t worthy somehow…or that I would be judged in a negative way. All I was really doing was limiting myself based on my OWN thoughts – not theirs. I was pre-paving what I didn’t want.
But I’ve changed. I make myself do it. I go. I speak. I even make mistakes. But you know what? I have learned a hell of lot more, accomplished amazing things and I am proud of myself now more than ever.
And even with the mistakes I’ve made – facing my fears – feels so much better than kicking my self in the booty for not even trying or worrying about what others think of me.
How can you begin today to feel more worthy about you? To create your dreams based on an inner power instead of an outer illusion?
Luckily, there is a way to learn more about yourself.
There is a way to learn about the part of your beautiful personality that you are desiring to share with others.
So that when you meet a potential new friend, or even lover, or meet a potential client or go on a special job interview – you won’t feel so insecure…
Because you know your strengths and you are overcoming your weaknesses.
You know what opportunities lie ahead of you and small challenges will not stop you.
And it will make your life so much easier.
If you are reading this then maybe you are feeling an inner tug to crash thru some fears and to step into your greatness! To be the full expression of you – in all your feminine glory!
I invite you to go on a journey with me, with other amazing gals – who are ready to reclaim their worth and do what they’ve longed to do – a journey into a new era of new you.
I’m calling this journey Femme & Fearless. A Mastermind and Coaching Club for a tribe of worthy women!
You can be so much happier and your are certainly worthy of it all!
Here’s to beautiful!