by Teresa Salhi
Have you noticed the beauty of synchronicity? you are so “in the flow” that doors open, lights turn green, checks appear in the mail, the people you needed to meet are right there. Ahhh, life is good.
Sometimes you just think about a friend, and boom, you get a phone call. Sometimes
you are so “in the flow” that doors open, lights turn green, checks appear in the mail, the people you needed to meet are right there. Ahhh, life is good.
And other days, not so much. Simply not working at all.
You arrive at work late, you have too much month at the end of the paycheck, and clients, friends or romance are no where in sight.
This kind of synchronicity or not – goes very deep. Been there?
And then again….certain women seem to be better than others at putting themselves in the right place at the right time.
These women just seem to get exactly what they want. Over and over again.
They seem to rise somewhat effortlessly in their careers.
They always have a guy.
And always seem to doing something amazing and fun.
What is up with all of that???
And you ask or maybe you scream – how can I get more of that???
Is there an actual method to becoming the perfect woman at attracting so much goodness? The answer is Yes.
I've learned so much personally about this and there is little magic that can happen and worth understanding.
And it has to do with the most overlooked ingredients in a woman’s life.
It has to do with her connection to pleasure.
This IS her attraction energy. There is nothing more magnetic, beautiful or powerful than a woman who is living from a point of pleasure.
When a woman is happy and feels good then everything she desires swarms around her like bees to honey.
Pleasure is attached to peacefulness, personal acceptance, knowing, and an expectancy of all she desires. These are not just mere words here – but a way of being, living, feeling that absolutely must be embraced.
It is the magic behind the flow of attracting of all you wildest, hottest, most abundant dreams. You must not only say you understand this – you must LIVE IT.
It is this natural feminine essence that connects you energetically to the Universe and the widest arms of love and deepest wells of abundance. This is synchronicity at it's finest.
Pleasure allows you to be in the moment – and is less about stress, trying, over-doing, or praying from a "begging-like" or "poor me" mindset. When you live in the moment you can always find nuggets of pleasure.
Huh? Yes, it is true. Stay with me here.
Most of us were taught to do everything the other way – we were taught to suffer.
Work our fingers to the bone.
Or we might of - somehow in some confused way – got pleasure from being a victim because that got us attention. We've talked before about how women long to be seen and heard – and there may have been times when drama got you noticed and thus a kind of "pleasure." But you know better now. And when you know better, you do better.
And furthermore, we must understand that life is a spiritual practice.
Experiencing pleasure creates the perfect, loving, gracious, generous, relationship between you and your source, which pops you straight into that somewhat elusive state of being called “the flow.” That sometimes you are in, and sometimes you seem to be excluded from.
Let me give you a little example of how this works. ….
Firstly, I know that when you are not in the flow, the last place you are going to want to go is in the direction of pleasure. But that is exactly where you must practice going.
I learned this from one of my mentors. Do a tiny trio of things that bring you pleasure. Come on, join me today. Experience for yourself the correlation between choosing pleasure and "the flow."
This is what I am going to do after I finish writing this blog, I am heading for a run, then a nice bubble bath and when I am all fresh and pretty, I will fix my hubby his favorite dinner as a surprise (he usually does the cooking).
All of this give me pleasure – if I allow it to. I will not complain about running and how hot it is. Instead I imagine my cells are happy faces. I indulge my time for a nice bath – sure I am busy but when I feel good, it shows in my work. And my sweetie loves food surprises – it is so fun to make him happy.
Will you join me in a tiny pleasure trio, today? You decide what it is that makes you feel a moment of pleasure and then do 3 little things – without guilt!
Report to me, here on the blog below, exactly what you choose to do for your tiny trio of pleasure.
And let me know how it impacts your sense of your own flow.
Tell me how it feels–
Let's see if it scoots you closer to the sense of being that woman who is in exactly the right place at the right time.
Big juicy smile – Teresa
And after you report below on your thoughts of the pleasure trio – come back here as I've got something else to add to your summer pleasure – how about a Summer of Love?
I work with other women personally to become more confident with who they are, what they want – so they too can embrace more love, joy and purpose. If you want to love yourself more -so you can love others more – so they can love you more – maybe I can help you. Wherever you are in the world – there are ways for us to work together. It's fun – and life changing too! Click here