Do you ever feel like you’ve been wanting something for a very long time? You got close a few times but somehow it got deflated?
You had spurts of awesome desire that got you fired up but in the end, you’re right back where you started.
UGH…it sucks.
Nothing changed.
I know, I know – been there, done that!
It seems like other women are doing it. So what gives?
I’ll tell you my lessons.
1st – there’s nothing wrong with you, you will get there if you stay true to yourself….
2nd – pull your hair back, roll up your sleeves honey – and KEEP GOING NO MATTER WHAT!
Do this regardless of any doubt and in spite of anyone or anything that tries to stand in your way or mess with your head. Ok?
It’s not such a fancy recipe but that’s literally what it takes. And the cherry on top is, it’s ok to fail! It’s like the secret ingredient. 🙂
Some women are not afraid to fail before they succeed. These are Fearless Women. May you be one too.
I’m not talking about an intimidating, loud, or a forceful kind of woman. But rather a fearless woman who is anchored in her femininity and owning her own superpowers!
Yes, it sounds intriguing and it is. That’s why I want you to get this…and if you’re already in this zone, how can you stretch yourself a little more?
~ Fearless Women Do 7 Things Differently ~
1. Fearless women …are authentic.
March to your own drum. The one that beats to your rhythm. Refrain from following the crowd like sheep or doing everything exactly as she does to be successful. It’s necessary to put your energy into being you and if you are unsure of it – a fearless woman goes on an inner journey of discovery.
2. Fearless women …take aligned action.
If something isn’t working – she’ll figure it out. She may have moments of despair but she will not go into a downward spiral that lasts for days on end. She checks in with her soul and trust in the guidance of what is the right and next step for her. takes action….
3. Fearless women …know its ok to ask and accept help.
It’s time to take off the superwoman cape. Stay away from victimhood, martyrdom and get into a collaboration with other human beings. We are meant to give and receive from each other. After all, we are not here on this planet alone, right?
4. Fearless women ….know there is glory in the chaos.
Life can get crazy and wonky at times. When you ask for more life to come to you – you can also expect for things to get shaken up a bit. The path to reaching further into your potential is getting out of the same ‘ole comfort one you’ve been in. You cannot expect different results by being the same year after year – now that’s crazy! But go ahead and expect a little chaos in the midst of change. You can handle it.
5. Fearless women ….invest in themselves.
If you want more – but have been stuck for longer than you care to admit. Then get support. Seriously. Hire a coach, invest in a program, go on a trip. This is when you need to get a new perspective, believe you are worth it and get out of the same environment you have been in day after day (mental and physical). For some reason, women will spend money on beautifying their outer self but resist when it comes to the inner self. Unless you are planning on being on the cover of Vogue – please invest on what matters most to your success.
6. Fearless women …are able to let shit go.
Letting go of control can feel insecure and threatening. But too much control blocks a natural flow of what you can receive. Let go of the past, release specific expectations for the future and show up fully for the present. Because THAT IS the only moment that really matters.
7. Fearless women …know how to listen.
Most people live their life through a learned existence. This is the ‘perspective’ of our ego and mind talk. It’s not bad a thing, your ego is trying to protect you from past experiences that hurt you. However, if you want to get out of that ‘box’ and limited perspective – then it’s time to sit your butt down and have a heart-to-heart talk with your soul. The inner guidance that will guide you out of limitations and into new possibilities! Practice asking and listening to your own superpowers – it’s called intuition and there’s a reason you have it.
There you have it darling, 7 Things Fearless Women Do Differently.
Do you have another you want to add to the list? Is there one you will take away today?
I would love to hear from you, please feel free to comment below.
In love and service
Teresa Salhi
Teresa Salhi is a professional coach, teacher, and certified law of attraction trainer. She was successful in corporate management for over 15 years with teams and clients worldwide. Teresa is passionate about helping women close the gap from where they are to where they really want to be. She is the founder of Empower The Dream; a positive corner of the Internet that provides thousands of women much-needed resources, inspiration and useful strategies to prioritize their heartfelt dreams in their personal lives or purposeful careers/businesses. More.
What an inspiring post! I don’t know about fearless, but I am definitely a courageous woman. 🙂
Thank you for Marquita 🙂
I love the idea of finding glory in chaos. I sometimes have this and other times I let it get to me without finding the glory. Asking for and accepting help is something I’m getting much better at doing. I think challenging yourself and stepping outside of your comfort zone adds to your fearlessness.
Yes, I agree Tami. Reframing our thoughts and making empowering choices definitely can move us forward.
Lots of food for thought here – asking for and accepting help is important and one that I’ve always struggled with. AND – bring on that chaos! I love working through a messy situation and seeing how it plays out. These are really great points – and it’s pretty cool to see that each of us has different experiences with each of them. Thanks for a great post.
Hi Deb. Thanks for commenting and being part of the solution to the chaos!! 🙂
“Fearless women …know its ok to ask and accept help.” That’s definitely the one I struggle with the most. But I’m getting better at it!
Absolutely, Kim!
I love the line “… there is glory in the chaos.” That is so true! All of your points are spot on, especially to just keep going. It’s hard to see the progress sometimes when you’re working toward a BIG goal – that’s where I’m at right now. So it’s tempting to slack off from time to time because I lose that sense of urgency. That’s when I call on my “just one more” strategy.
When I was in sales and had to do things I hated – like cold calls – I would always tell myself, just one more, just one more. Many times that one more helps me to catch my second wind!
I really like your one more strategy Marquita!
We have to learn to trust our own voice speaking to us when it says empowering things, and to shut it down when it tells us we can’t do it!
Right on Dianne!
Sorry… but I am loud and people find me intimidating for some reason, but that’s on them, it’s not my fault… and well… I don’t always let stuff go… but pretty amazing! lol
Ah yes, there is glory in knowing you are too …and owning it. I think that is a recipe for a fearless woman too! 🙂
This is such a good article, Teresa. I especially like the “She may have moments of despair but she will not go into a downward spiral that lasts for days on end” remark. I have known too many women who descend into long periods of despair.
I also resonate with the importance of being a good listener and being willing to invest in yourself, not just your appearance.
Yes, those are 2 very important practices. And the investment in self is often overlooked for growth. Thanks for being here Beth.
There’s a lot of different terms used to describe women. I love that you have thoughtfully identified 7 fearless states. The value of chaos I had not considered as a separte quality before. It makes sense, since we always seem to be managing the chaos creaated by others plus our own.The best part for me was how you included the part of going on the inner journey of self discovery.
You are welcome Joyce. The chaos is a big one I learned and the value it can serve if we choose to look at with fresh eyes an for improvement rather than giving up.
In my own life I seemed to have mastered 1 and 7 on your list. Although I am learning to ask for help, somehow people see me as the person who never needs it. We all have different ways of “being” and the key is to find what is true to us and to be that as authentically as possible. Life is a process.
Yes, Beverley, I agree. I guess we could say it is more about our journey than our destination. Thanks for commenting.
I love the fearless women investing in themselves. I love the learn and hope to never stop. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for commenting Sabrina.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned over the years is to ASK FOR HELP. I grew up in a family where pushing through on your own was a sign of strength. Not that that isn’t a strength, but on the other end of that; asking for help, was consider weakness. Knowing ourselves is one of the most powerful things we can learn; know what your strengths are and aren’t and surround yourself with people who complement your strength. and above all keep on, keeping on… right?
Yes for sure Lisa! 🙂 I think as women too we have been modeled into having to do it…and we naturally do for others. One feminine quality we often ignore within ourselves is the art of receiving….
I don’t really know when I became fearless, but I’m so glad you are describing me. One thing I learned is not to compare myself to others. What looks like big success on the outside might be no $ in the bank. WE can all achieve what we set out to do & women need women like you to help them along the way.
Yes we can Roslyn, thank you!
Love this, Teresa! Being fearless and fierce is my mantra these days 🙂 And I hadn’t thought of there being glory in the chaos! I just love: “You cannot expect different results by being the same year after year.” Yes!
Hi Susan, thanks. Ah, yes..leaning for the chaos helped to know more about what I wanted to!